1. Trusting Others :
In a previous life you were lied to and taken advantage of frequently to the point that you were living in poverty after being successful and wealthy. The people around you took advantage of your good nature and in the end you were left with virtually nothing. In present day time, it is difficult for you to trust others and believing that they are honest. This has possibly caused you to be suspicious in many different relationship situations leaving you questioning what everyone’s motives truly are. While it is wise to not believe everything you hear, there does come a time when being too suspicious is unhealthy and you may become a hermit. A suggestion for working through this relationship challenge would be to not make judgment calls right away labeling whether something or someone is to be trusted or not. Give the situation a little bit of time and allow it to play out on its own.
Ever notice that people seem to push the envelope and take more than what was agreed upon with you? One of your relationship challenges is learning how to remain strong in your opinions, promises to yourself and learning how to say “no” when you mean no. In a past life, you were so hungry for approval that you said yes to everyone and lost your identity because you wanted so badly to fit in with everyone everywhere. The challenge is that not everyone is going to like you when you establish your boundaries, yet it is important to do so, otherwise you’ll be exhausted trying to please everyone and sacrificing your well-being in the meantime. Stick to your guns and over time, you won’t feel as guilty saying “no” and will much more at peace as you do so.
3. Fear of Moving On:
In this lifetime, you struggle with cutting ties with toxic people and situations. This struggle stems from a previous lifetime where people were taken out of your life without notice ~ death, illness, military, adultery etc. In this other life, you were lonely because those people that you were close with were taken away too soon. In this lifetime, there will not be a shortage of healthy, loving and balanced relationships, so it’s ok to move on from the chaos and toxicity. Having the belief that this is as good as it’s going to get is something that you will have to work on. If you are not happy, then it is best to take yourself out of an unhealthy situation and give yourself time to heal and then open your heart because there are plenty of joyful relationships waiting for you on the other side.